Living with Breast Cancer

It is normal to have trouble coping with a diagnosis of breast cancer. Some women feel fear, anger, denial, frustration, loss of control, confusion, and grief. Others feel lonely, isolated, and depressed. Women also have to deal with issues about their self-image, future priorities, sexuality, and possible death.

Each woman has to deal with these issues and her diagnosis of cancer in her own way and on her own time schedule. Many women find that it helps to talk about their feelings with their loved ones or close friends. You may also want to talk to a friend or family member who can just listen and allow you to sort out your feelings without giving any advice.  When you reach out, you are giving loved ones and friends the chance to show their support during this difficult time.

As much as you feel comfortable, talk about your concerns with members of your health care team.  Many women are helped by talking about their feelings with other women who have had breast cancer.  To Life! encourages you to attend its Awareness, Connection and Education (ACE) meetings where women in treatment get together to share information and support.  Another option is to participate in To Life!s mentoring program where you will be matched with a survivor who has been through a recent similar diagnosis and treatment experience. Mentoring relationships can happen in person, by phone or by email.  This option is especially useful for women who are unable to attend group meetings due to time constraints or health issues.

To Life! is there for you and your loved ones from diagnosis to treatment – and throughout your journey to recovery. You can read about our support programs on this website – and also call us for more information and to discuss each program with a member of the staff or a volunteer. Remember, we are here for you!
Read about our ACE Program

Concerns and fears about breast cancer are likely to stay with you.  A new ache or pain, a medical test or the anniversary of your diagnosis may unexpectedly get you down or worried.  These feelings are part of being a cancer survivor.  But the emotions will be fewer and farther between as you return to your regular activities.